Using a telephone, communication device, text to harass someone is a crime in the United States

To maintain a constructive and lawful communication pattern with the other parent, especially when court involvement is possible, it’s essential to follow clear guidelines that minimize misunderstandings and protect your legal standing:

1. Daily Communication Limit: Call once a day at a specific, mutually agreed-upon time. If the call goes unanswered, you may try a second time, followed by a voicemail or text message as appropriate.

2. Professional Tone: Keep all communication professional and respectful, as though the judge were reviewing your texts and voicemails. Avoid confrontational language; approach all communication with a focus on the child’s well-being.

3. Text Limitations: Send only one text message each day to inquire about or arrange a call with your child. This maintains boundaries and avoids any perception of excessive or intrusive messaging.

4. Legal Boundaries: In the United States, using the phone to harass is a criminal offense, which includes:

   • Obscene or Lewd Content: Avoid any lewd, vulgar, or obscene language, suggestions, or comments.

   • Repeated Calls: Refrain from repeatedly calling, as this can be considered harassment.

   • Anonymity: Always identify yourself at the start of a call.

   • Multiple Ringing: Avoid placing calls solely to make the phone ring repeatedly.

Respecting these boundaries is crucial to avoid potential claims of harassment, which can impact court proceedings. Keep detailed records of calls and messages sent, as well as any replies, to demonstrate adherence to appropriate communication practices if questioned in court.

Each state is different please look up your applicable laws. If convicted, a person faces imprisonment up to 60 days and/or a fine up to $500. Florida Code, § 365.16 prohibits using a phone to engage in a course of conduct which threatens, alarms, or intimidates another