Where do I start
Beginning a thousand mile journey begins with the first step.
Louis Lliteras
11/13/20242 min read


The First Step: Opening Your Case
The journey to establishing your rights begins by visiting your local Family Court or Domestic Relations Department.
Follow these steps specific to the area in which you live.
Below are specific instructions for residents of Miami-Dade County, Florida. Location & Hours
Lawson E. Thomas Family Courthouse
Address: 175 N.W. 1st Avenue, Miami, Florida 33128
Phone: (305) 275-1155
Hours: Opens at 9:00 AM, Monday
On the 24th floor, you’ll find the Self-Help Program, which offers essential legal assistance.
Legal Packages Available
There are two packages available for approximately $85.00 (fees are subject to change):
Determination of Paternity
Dissolution of Marriage
Process Time:
Completing these forms may take about 4 hours.
If a financial affidavit is required, allow an additional 45 minutes with your recent paycheck stub.
Filing Fee and Indigency Options
Filing fees vary depending on your county and state. If the cost is a barrier, explore options to file as indigent or apply for indigency status to see if you qualify for a fee waiver.
Would a waiver allow you to redirect those funds as a voluntary donation towards a one-year membership? This is an option worth exploring.
Notarizing and Filing Your Petition
Once your petition is completed, reviewed, stamped, and signed by a notary, you are ready to file.
Service of Process: Getting the Other Party Served
You’ll need to arrange for the other party to be served with a 20-day summons. Choose between:
Sheriff Service: May take up to 30 days to complete.
Private Process Server: Offers faster service for a slightly higher fee.
Starting your case properly is critical—make sure your documents are prepared thoroughly, and choose the most efficient service option for your needs.
Guidelines for Legal Preparation and Family Court Procedures
Service of Process
You must provide the address, location, and time to have the other party served.
Prepare for Local Rules
While waiting, familiarize yourself with the rules specific to your state. Each state has unique family court procedures. For members residing outside the U.S., please request a specialized packet with additional details. Knowledge of the rules is essential.
Florida Members
For Florida cases, refer to Chapter 61 of the Florida Statutes, which covers Family and Domestic Relations Court. This is a 99-page document—print it out and highlight sections that apply to your situation.
Key Steps and Deadlines
Day 21: Set a calendar reminder to file your Default Entry.
Why is a default entry considered a “fool’s gold” victory?
How easy is it to set aside a default?
