Where do I start

Beginning a thousand mile journey begins with the first step.

Louis Lliteras

11/13/20242 min read

The First Step: Opening Your Case

The journey to establishing your rights begins by visiting your local Family Court or Domestic Relations Department.

Follow these steps specific to the area in which you live.

Below are specific instructions for residents of Miami-Dade County, Florida. Location & Hours

  • Lawson E. Thomas Family Courthouse
    Address: 175 N.W. 1st Avenue, Miami, Florida 33128
    Phone: (305) 275-1155
    Hours: Opens at 9:00 AM, Monday

On the 24th floor, you’ll find the Self-Help Program, which offers essential legal assistance.

Legal Packages Available

There are two packages available for approximately $85.00 (fees are subject to change):

  1. Determination of Paternity

  2. Dissolution of Marriage

Process Time:

  • Completing these forms may take about 4 hours.

  • If a financial affidavit is required, allow an additional 45 minutes with your recent paycheck stub.

Filing Fee and Indigency Options

Filing fees vary depending on your county and state. If the cost is a barrier, explore options to file as indigent or apply for indigency status to see if you qualify for a fee waiver.

Would a waiver allow you to redirect those funds as a voluntary donation towards a one-year membership? This is an option worth exploring.

Notarizing and Filing Your Petition

Once your petition is completed, reviewed, stamped, and signed by a notary, you are ready to file.

Service of Process: Getting the Other Party Served

You’ll need to arrange for the other party to be served with a 20-day summons. Choose between:

  1. Sheriff Service: May take up to 30 days to complete.

  2. Private Process Server: Offers faster service for a slightly higher fee.

Starting your case properly is critical—make sure your documents are prepared thoroughly, and choose the most efficient service option for your needs.

Guidelines for Legal Preparation and Family Court Procedures

Service of Process

You must provide the address, location, and time to have the other party served.

Prepare for Local Rules

While waiting, familiarize yourself with the rules specific to your state. Each state has unique family court procedures. For members residing outside the U.S., please request a specialized packet with additional details. Knowledge of the rules is essential.

Florida Members

For Florida cases, refer to Chapter 61 of the Florida Statutes, which covers Family and Domestic Relations Court. This is a 99-page document—print it out and highlight sections that apply to your situation.

Key Steps and Deadlines

  • Day 21: Set a calendar reminder to file your Default Entry.

  • Why is a default entry considered a “fool’s gold” victory?

  • How easy is it to set aside a default?